We don’t know what we’re doing in marriage unless we ask someone. We bring all the experiences and expectations from our upbringing and try to combine with someone who brings their own experiences and upbringing. A blueprint for disaster, unless we go to God’s blueprints for marriage- His Word. This is a list of resources we use and have found helpful in sharing God's truth, hope and vision for marriage. Pick up a tool and get to work on building the marriage God created you to have!

Marriage, Adultery, etc.:

Dating While Separated:

Role of Husband:

Role of Wife:

Living Together Before Marriage

Pornography Addiction:




What a tool can Marriage on the Rock by Jimmy Evans changed our marriage:


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6691097: Battlefield of the Mind, Winning the Battle in Your Mind
542146: NKJV FamilyLife Marriage Bible: Leathersoft Dark Brown
014789: Lifelong Love Affair: How to Have a Passionate and Deeply Rewarding Marriage
18241: Intimate Allies
46641: Hedges: Loving Your Marriage Enough To Protect It
530784: What Did You Expect? Redeeming the Realities of  Marriage
28852X: Starting Your Marriage Right: What You Need to Know in the Early Years to Make It Last a Lifetime
204472: The Respect Dare: 40 Days to a Deeper Connection with God and Your Husband
679599: The Love Dare
42827: Sacred Marriage: What if God Designed Marriage to Make Us Holy More Than to Make Us Happy
301332: The One-Year Book of Hope
531118: This Momentary Marriage: A Parable of Permanence


451876: Love & Respect: The Love She Most Desires, the Respect He Desperately Needs
414281: Fight Fair! Winning at Conflict Without Losing at Love
70060: Peacemaking For Families
380055: Uprooting Anger
719388: His Needs, Her Needs--Revised and Expanded


520351: Two Hearts Praying as One
919767: The Power of a Praying Husband
919244: The Power of a Praying Wife

Sex & Intimacy:

836401: Intimacy Ignited: Kindling Your Love Life With the Song of Solomon
301846: The 5 Sex Needs of Men & Women: Discover the Secrets of Great Sex in a Godly Marriage
719371: Intended for Pleasure, Fourth Edition
60243: Sheet Music


457974: Every Man"s Battle with Workbook: Winning the War on Sexual Temptation One Victory at a Time
023190: Stepping Up: A Call to Courageous Manhood
200392: Wild at Heart: Discovering the Secret of a Man"s Soul, revised and expanded
373287: Follow Me: A Call to Die. A Call to Live.
526139: Tender Warrior
525722: For Men Only
523694: Family Shepherds: Calling and Equipping Men to Lead Their Homes


200381: Captivating: Unveiling the Mystery of a Woman"s Soul, revised and expanded
205851: The Best Yes: Making Wise Decisions in the Midst of Endless Demands
444944: Intimate Issues: Conversations Woman-to-Woman
705358: Becoming Myself: Embracing God"s Dream of You
459428: Every Heart Restored: A Wife"s Guide to Healing in the Wake of a Husband"s Sexual Sin
32635: The Allure of Hope: God"s Pursuit of a Woman"s Heart
72966: Lies Women Believe: And the Truth that Sets them Free
424440: For Women Only, Revised and Updated Edition: What You Need to Know About the Inner Lives of Men
334721: So Long, Insecurity: You"ve Been a Bad Friend to Us, Hardcover

Hope for Recovery:

943150: Healing Your Marriage When Trust Is Broken
471352: Torn Asunder: Recovering from an Extramarital Affair
007215: Before the Last Resort: 3 Simple Questions to Rescue
725810: From Anger to Intimacy: How Forgiveness Can Transform Your Marriage
8898X: When You"ve Been Wronged: Moving From Bitterness to Forgiveness
432530: Choosing Forgiveness: Your Journey to Freedom
48647: Hush: Moving from Silence to Healing After Childhood Sexual Abuse
885475: Recovering from Child Abuse: Healing and Hope for Victims
273780: Sexual Assault: Healing Steps for Victims
063070: The Wounded Heart: Hope for Adult Victims of Childhood Sexual Abuse
420130: Avoiding the Greener Grass Syndrome

Blended Families:

201590: The Smart Stepfamily
207020: The Smart Stepmom: Practical Steps to Help You Thrive
4206962: The Smart Stepdad: Steps to Help You Succeed


002320: HomeBuilders: Making Your Marriage Deployment Ready
294023: God Strong: The Military Wife"s Spiritual Survival Guide

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